Memorial Day, May 28:
Remembering Their Sacrifice
By Grace Smith |

Philippe Mahieux, AFC computer services, and his wife, Donna, and daughter, Sara, traveled to Bastogne for the 60th anniversary of the Battle of the Bulge. The town was filled with American Flags and WWII memorabilia paying respect to American soldiers who helped
restore peace. |
Ahh…the
relaxation of Memorial Day! The weather is warming up, children are
getting out of school for summer and much of the "working
world" is anticipating its "day out of the office." This
national holiday, set aside for Americans to observe the men and women
killed in military action, quickly becomes a holiday jam-packed with
picnics, beach visits, family gatherings and sporting events.
We
all love Memorial Day, but how many times have we ever paused – even
for just a moment – during that special spring day to pay our respects
to those who, in serving our country, have sacrificed everything?
The
reality is many of us plow right through the holiday, enjoying the much
needed relaxation and the company of our loved ones, while the real
meaning of Memorial Day is lost somewhere among the picnic plans and the
innings of our baseball games. Sadly, I’m as guilty as the next
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My
90-year-old grandfather, Ivan W. Smith of Billingsley, is a veteran of
World War II. Ever since I can remember, he’s willingly talked about
his time in the military. Many afternoons, my brothers and I would
listen to his tales of sleeping in "foxholes" under the snow
in the unrelenting Belgian cold, of the anxiety he and his fellow
soldiers faced struggling to beat a determined enemy and of his longing
desire to be back at home with his new wife, Louise. I’ve probably
heard those stories a thousand times, and now, after 23 years, they’re
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Each
month I am assigned certain articles to write and last month one was
sprung on me at the last minute. I was asked to interview Philippe
Mahieux, an AFC computer services employee. I had talked with Philippe
several times in passing through the office, but I’d never heard his
family’s unbelievable stories. I didn’t know much about him, but
there was one thing I noticed immediately. Although Philippe speaks
English eloquently, he has a distinct accent, so I knew he wasn’t
"from the area." This unmistakable accent made his stories so
real and vivid as we spoke that afternoon.
Philippe
told me he was originally from Maillen, a town about 50 miles from
Bastogne, the main site of the Battle of the Bulge. After joining the
Belgian Air Force in 1976, he came to the United States in 1978 as a
student for the Nike Hercules missile at Redstone Arsenal in Huntsville.
While there, he met his wife, Donna Grimes, a native of Alabama, and in
1979 they were married. The day after their marriage, Philippe, along
with his new wife, moved back to Belgium. But in 1985, they returned to
the United States to live; and in 1987, he and Donna were blessed with a
beautiful daughter, Sara.
Philippe’s
story of moving to a new, unfamiliar country and finding love was
interesting itself, but it was his parents’ stories that brought me to
speak with him that afternoon.
Philippe’s
parents, Joseph Mahieux and Marie-Josee Flahaux were born in small towns
just outside of Bastogne, Belgium, in 1933 and lived there their whole
lives, even during the tumultuous years of the Second World War. They
were only children during those years, but even children weren’t
spared the violent images of the war, leaving scars of fear and unrest
in their minds.
During
WWII, Joseph’s family home was requisitioned by two
Waffen SS officers. You may recall from your history lessons that SS
soldiers were the "worst of the |

Ivan W. Smith, a WWII veteran, examines his military jacket as he recalls his involvement in the Battle of the Bulge. Resting on the table beside Smith is ammunition his battalion used to destroy enemy tanks. |
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notorious for their commitment to Nazi ideals which they sought to
accomplish at any cost. Philippe said his family did not have to
leave their home, instead the officers just, in some sense, lived among
his family, coming and going as they needed to. Surprisingly, they did
not harm his family; they simply used their home as a retreat when they
weren’t fighting to promote Hitler’s propaganda of anti-Semitism and
"racial purity." |

The family of Philippe Mahieux cares for seven American WWII gravesites in the Neuville-en-Condroz cemetery and Memorial. When Philippe married Donna, his mother specifically requested to care for the gravesite of a fallen Alabama soldier. |
Philippe
spoke of his grandfather’s bravery in standing up to the soldiers. His
father told him that one day one of the officers entered the bedroom
before removing his muddy boots. His grandfather, sitting at the table,
called to the officer and asked him, "When you are at your home, do
you walk in the bedroom with muddy boots on?" The officer answered
him with a "no" and proceeded to remove his boots.
Marie-Josee,
Philippe’s mother, had a different story. Some of Marie-Josee’s
aunts and uncles were involved in the Belgian Resistance, which was
organized to combat the workings of Nazi soldiers throughout Belgium.
From the beginning, her family hid guns and other weapons used to combat
German soldiers, in their home. |
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Her
family soon expanded its "resistance duties" and took in two
Jewish families. This was an attempt to protect them from Nazi soldiers
who sought to "exterminate" all Jews in a deliberate effort to
achieve one "superior" Aryan race. |
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Philippe
told stories of how his grandparents feared that Marie-Josee and her
siblings would accidentally tell someone about the Jewish families
living in their home. His grandfather would stress to his children not
to speak of the hidden families each day before they left for school.
The children never did and after the war was over, the families were
saved.
As
the war dragged on, Philippe said his parents longed to see a cease to
the hostility. But the war continued. In December of 1944 soldiers were
fighting in what became known as The Battle of the Bulge, which in its
entirety, grew to become one of the bloodiest set of battles during
WWII.
Philippe
said his parents told him of the relief they felt as American soldiers
arrived in their towns. After weeks of fighting, American soldiers were
able to restore peace in his parents’ towns. Philippe said his parents
viewed the Americans almost as "gods" because of the role they
played in ultimately winning the Battle of the Bulge and ending the
violence that had become commonplace in Belgium. |

The Mardasson Memorial, located just outside of
Bastogne, was built in honor of the nearly 77,000 American soldiers who were killed or wounded during the Battle of the Bulge. |
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As
Philippe told me of his parents’ experiences during WWII, I couldn’t
help but recall those stories my grandfather had shared with me over the
years. Listening to Philippe tell "the other side of the
story," I finally began to realize the significance of my
grandfather’s sacrifices. |

Rows of crosses blanket the Belgian countryside at cemeteries like the Henri Chapelle Cemetery, pictured above, and the Neuville-en-Condroz cemetery serving
as resting places for fallen American soldiers. |
My
grandfather, "Granddaddy," as I know him, was in the 630th
Tank Destroyer Battalion. He explained that his battalion was part of
the "anti-tank" support for the 28th Infantry.
After
speaking with Philippe, I asked Granddaddy to describe his experiences
during the Battle of the Bulge and this time, I really listened.
He
explained that during mid-December of 1944, his company had been in a
"holding position" along the Luxembourg/Germany border. But on
the evening of December 15, Granddaddy’s platoon sergeant informed his
gun crew, the number 1 gun, and the number 2 gun crew that there was
suspected "tank activity" on the other side of the Our River
in Germany. Granddaddy and his fellow soldiers were given orders to move
their guns toward the suspected "activity." So they left that
evening.
"There
was a little village just across the river," he said. "We set
our guns up about 300 yards away [from the village] in a field. It was
dark and turning cold, but we had to |
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ahead and dig a gun pit. We dug foxholes to sleep in; it was getting
colder by the hour. The next morning at about 5:30, they [the German
soldiers] started firing artillery. They unloaded heavy fire for about
30 minutes. Then they stopped. They started shining searchlights against
the clouds and the elements. That made it look ghostly; people were
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Granddaddy
said things had begun to quiet down that morning when Allied soldiers
with three self-propelled anti-tank guns, which were smaller and more
portable than Granddaddy’s "towed gun," went ahead of them
toward the enemy. Later, some of those soldiers returned with one of
those self-propelled guns. The soldiers informed my grandfather and his
fellow soldiers that the other two guns had been destroyed and that a
column of German tanks was traveling toward them on a secondary road.
Because
of the size of Granddaddy’s gun, they had to dig a pit in which to set
it up. Unfortunately, the gun was positioned toward the primary road,
not the secondary road where the oncoming tanks were traveling.
Granddaddy and his crew would have to dig a new pit to turn the gun in
the appropriate direction, and they had to do it quickly as the enemy
tanks were already headed toward them.
He
said they were able to get their gun set up just in time for the enemy
tank to come into view. They fired at the column’s lead tank,
crippling its tracks, but not inhibiting its cannon. The enemy tank
fired back, using highly explosive ammunition that knocked all of them
to the ground. The explosion sent shrapnel flying, striking my |

During the 60th Anniversary Celebration, American flags flew alongside Belgian flags outside Bastogne buildings in honor of American soldiers who fought in the Battle of the Bulge. |
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grandfather
in the ribs and sadly, killing one member of his crew. Fortunately,
Granddaddy was able to keep fighting and heroically he and his fellow
soldiers pulled themselves back up, loaded their gun and fired back at
the enemy. Granddaddy said the fighting lingered on all day, but by the
evening of the 15th, they had won the battle reportedly destroying 6
enemy tanks.
Granddaddy
has told me scores of war stories like that one over the years. But it wasn’t
until I listened to Philippe’s account of the chaos his family experienced
that I realized the magnitude of my grandfather’s "war stories."
It all makes sense now – Granddaddy didn’t know Philippe’s family and
probably never even saw them while he was overseas, but he was fighting so
that innocent people, like Philippe’s family, could have peace.
Philippe
assured me that the sacrifices American soldiers, like my granddaddy, made
during WWII have not gone unappreciated.
Philippe,
along with his wife and daughter, traveled to Belgium for the 60th anniversary
of the Battle of the Bulge. He showed me pictures of the signs and American
flags that adorned Belgium buildings showing gratitude to American soldiers
for the price they paid in helping to restore peace.
Philippe
said Belgian citizens volunteer to take care of the American gravesites that
blanket the Belgian countryside at the Neuville-en-Condroz cemetery. Philippe
said his family cares for seven of the American graves there, including one
that belongs to a fallen Alabama soldier.
I’ve
come to realize something very important – my grandfather was one of the
lucky ones. He made it back home. Sure, he lives with images of fallen
brothers and a memory of the fear and terror he faced while overseas, but he
has lived a happy and full life. And I am so thankful he made it home.
I
have a new appreciation for Memorial Day. Philippe and Grand-daddy have
unknowingly helped me realize that Memorial Day is so much more than a picnic
during the seventh inning of a baseball game or a relaxing day at the beach
with friends. It is a day to pay respect to those gave of themselves completely
so that we can enjoy things like baseball, picnics and the beach.
This
Memorial Day I hope you won’t get so caught up in holiday plans that you don’t
stop to remember the sacrifices of our veterans. Remember the price they paid
– they gave of themselves unselfishly so that we could have the lifestyle we
experience today.
Grace
Smith is an associate editor for AFC Cooperative Farming News.
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